Top 10 Problems with Cuckolding Porn and Lifestyle

Written by Rastafoo69, edited by OtakuApologist

I’ve been involved in the cuckolding community for years. Although I love the fetish, I hate the reality. From running forums and subreddits, to speaking to friends and family in the life, I can say that cuckolding is extremely risky.

I have written tens of reviews on cuckolding porn games for Hentaireviews. They are some of our most viewed content. This fetish is increasingly popular in the west, and very profitable for porn producers. If fiction didn’t inspire people into action, there would be no issue. But there are many actual couples who do this.

There are successful cuckolding relationships. They are the rare exceptions, not the rule. I respect that you will make your own choices and take your own risks, but dearly hope that this writeup will give you perspective.

1 – You are exposed to cuckolding propaganda

There are thousands of mainstream movies and videos that feature cuckolding. From the quirky Netflix commercial above, to entire Hollywood films. Do your research, and you’ll soon find some big seedy names with insidious agendas pushing this content to the mainstream. It doesn’t seem natural to me for an obscure niche fetish to be growing this fast.

Modern romantic comedies and chick flick dramas are the worst offenders. If you follow the money, you’ll find some interesting things about the people financing this media. You’ll soon realize there are thousands of media examples of actual cuckold propaganda pushed on society.

2 – It’s all about profit

Watch the movie “The Indecent Proposal”. With Demi Moore as the star, the story follows a couple where a wife is paid a million dollars to cheat on her husband. The film made over 250 million dollars at the box office.

This content is not produced out of artistic self-expression. Pornographers are businessmen who research their consumers deeply to understand the market. They know the social problems their products cause. They don’t care about the sexual hangups you’ll develop as a consequence of consuming this content. The bottom line is money, nobody gives a fuck.

3 – Cuckolding requires emotional manipulation

Go onto any online cuckolding forums and you’ll see the same post every time. “How do I convince my girlfriend to do this?” Read the responses in the comments, and tell me if this is okay. From showing your girlfriend cuckolding porn, to turning your dirty talk into cheating encouragement, none of this is right. There are entire books and guides that teach you how to manipulate your partner into a risky sexual relationship.

It’s not just men abusing women. There are numerous women seeking help on how to convince their man to allow cheating. This is not about love and companionship. It’s about sex and pleasure, with real consequences.

4 – Cuckolding pregnancies

Much of the cuckolding community is focused on the fetish of pregnancy. On Reddit alone, there are over 300,000 visits to the Cuckold Pregnancy group, per month! Go onto any cuckolding forum and you’ll see the same thing.

These communities actively encourage women to commit paternity fraud and hide the pregnancy from their husband. Many more get encouragement to go off of birth control without telling their husband. This is commonly termed as “rape by deception”, and cuckolds adore it.

Worse still, it’s never about the child. The baby is a sex object used by the couple to symbolize their relationship. In many cases, the woman will simply abort the child after the excitement has worn off.

5 – Erectile dysfunction

Like with any vice, you will eventually form a tolerance for your consumption of cuckold porn. It starts small but spirals out of control. First it’s a video of a wife with the plumber, then a wife at a glory hole. Soon, you may not be able to orgasm without cuckolding content. For porn producers, that’s great news. You’ll be purchasing their every new release.

Over the years, you may develop a fixation and be unable to climax unless you’re viewing extreme hardcore content. Porn also makes men less empathetic towards women. It’s a recipe for unhealthy relationships.

6 – Cuckolding is racist

Cuckolding porn is most often about a muscular black man having unprotected sex with a young white girl. The problem is, the content portrays black men as disregarding of marriage and commitment. It portrays white women as disloyal scum who can’t be trusted. It’s just my opinion, but I don’t like that interracial relationships are fetishized as taboo and immoral.

7 – A dead social life

Cuckolding requires enormous amounts of time and commitment. You have to spend a lot of time finding and vetting partners for the female. All this time could be spent on something more meaningful, like being with friends. Every moment you spend fantasizing about cheating is time not spent with your partner.

Even when cuckolding is successful, your wife or girlfriend will have her attention split between you and another man. Your anxiety will leave you fixated on her, and you will lack the attention and energy to have fun with your friends.

8 – The threat of exposure

Keeping up appearances is damn near impossible. Cuckold relationships require extreme secrecy. This is not simply a fetish, it’s a lifestyle, and it isn’t easy to manage at all.

I’ve seen it happen too many times. A story is told, and someone relevant knows the couple. A photo is shared, and identifying traits are discovered. No matter how hard you try, there will always be a chance of getting caught.

Friendships will crumble, family will be ashamed, and children will be scarred for life. There have even been cases where employers have to take action to protect their business. A school teacher exposed as a cuckoldress will not be tolerated at most schools. Life is not a piece of erotica.

Have you ever noticed how many users go inactive on the cuckolding forums? How many accounts get deleted? Even the most careful of couples is eventually exposed, and they quietly exit the community.

9 – It’s not emotionally healthy

Cuckolding thrives on three basic emotions. First, you experience the thrill of dabbling in taboo. You’re getting off on the idea of breaking the rules and doing something wrong. But social taboos exist to protect you!

The second emotion is humiliation. The husband assumes a role where he accepts that he is unworthy of his wife. Not only does this lead to partners losing respect for each other, but it’s also commonly used as a cover for the exploration of homosexual impulses. Hence the large number of bisexual cuckolds.

The third emotion is lust. You are ignoring the consequences, ignoring the dangers, all for the sake of thrills. Yes, you might get sick orgasms and be hysterically excited throughout your days when things are good. They won’t always be good.

10 – Cuckolding and breakups

I’ve run cuckolding forums across the web with thousands of members, and I know one thing to always be true. Young and old, people of every stripe, no-one is immune from the possibility of breakups. Relationships are hard enough as is, and your cuckolding lifestyle complicates the social dynamics even further.

You might not have regrets that night, but you will eventually. One partner will feel regret or insecurity. They won’t feel properly treasured by their spouse. The manipulation will get too obvious and strong, and someone will leave.

Another common story is the wife falling in love with another man. Fact is, women are attracted to strong men. When the husband is submissive, he’s impossible to respect. Cuckolding does not make you two closer. It makes you sexually open, but no relationship can survive on sex alone, especially when another man is involved.