I wanted to share a blog post from a feminist writer I came across. Her name is Macy Meinhardt, she writes for Womensrepublic.net. It was the perfect post to discuss the current status of the western dating market. You can read the blog post from the link above, but I also added a screenshot sample below.
And below the screenshot is my message to western feminists, I addressed it directly at this writer.
Hey, Macy. I came across this website and your post while researching for a presentation I’m preparing to give to a media company. I also run my own business, several even, have roughly twenty part-time freelancers, currently two are full-time.
I’m the kind of guy your post describes: A man who is “intimidated” by the dating market. I shortly dated a depressed single mother, and a girl who was having sex with multiple men while flirting with guys on her Instagram. I also fell in love with a voice actress who described herself as loving “dick diversity”, she talked endlessly about her ex-boyfriends.
You can rationalize this however you want. But fact remains that you’re not providing what most decent men are looking for. Please understand, we are busy doing projects, building businesses, making friends and connections, personal development, political activism, personal accomplishments, hobbies, etc.
Because we are very busy, we don’t have time for high-maintenance girls who are hyper vigilant about their supposed rights and boundaries and identities. Nobody is looking to cross those. You can have all that, you just aren’t interesting to me as a person. You’ve opted to build yourself into something that doesn’t work in the framework of my industrious life.
From running my often struggling businesses that come with a variety of hurdles that require constant maintenance, I do not have the mental capacity left to navigate conversations with you. There’s just too much going on with you.
How does a modern man even talk to you? I often find that modern girls are just impossible to talk with, because of anxieties and an incapability to engage arguments, leaving many important conversations avoided and disagreements unresolved. The issues are often very basic, but fundamental, and hinder the relationship in the long run.
If you are not aiming to be a wife and a mother, a good cook and a keeper of my estate, you are simply too expensive to keep just for sex. I can spend the money that would go on dates with you on stocks or gold or cryptocurrencies. Higher net worth means access to better girls.
I can get sex for much cheaper than the cost of 3 dates, which it usually takes before girls feel ready. The sexiest girls sell their time for just $70-100 for 30 minutes of in-and-out. Given the pros and cons of a relationship with you, and fact that you don’t care about my needs and preferences, I rather invest in myself than you.
I don’t hate women. Half of my freelancers are women. The younger girls have made passes at me and things started developing, but this mismatch of values and overall orientation in life becomes a deal-breaker.
I’m not dating right now because I have better things to do with my time than spend months scouring the dating market for someone on my current level, when I can as well focus on my career and attract a higher class girl later.
I am optimizing my time investment. Because I want a traditional marriage and kids with traditional gender roles, I have to be vastly more successful than my woman for those dynamics to click. I’m having to work very hard to be attractive, because modern girls are generally very educated and successful and won’t date men below their level.
You girls want to focus on yourselves and your careers and whatever else you’re interested in. That’s fine.
We want different things. We have no common direction. This is the situation men face, especially when dating feminists, which I also did for a short time. She was a nice girl, but her family was a wreck. According to her, her mother married the father within a year, then she was made. Absolutely no patriarchy was forcing her to have kids with a man she barely knew. Last I spoke with the girl, her sister had been shot, best friend hospitalized, her father was a drug addict and her mother had cut ties with her, while she was reeling with a panic attack.
I am not standing in the way of your happiness. I am stepping aside.
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Or put it another way – even if a man wasn’t looking for a woman to have kids with, there is one thing that strong-willed women will want, which you’ve mentioned: “You girls want to focus on yourselves and your careers and whatever else you’re interested in.” A woman pursuing this, even if she wasn’t going on and on about rights and feminism, is going to struggle putting together a relationship. Men struggle with this all the time. Women give them grief about it. So it’s perplexing that feminists frequently believe that women are magically free from this struggle.
But ultimately, you can’t claim “Anything you can do, I can do better”, then get angry at men for not doing better when you’ve already established that you’re the better sex. It’s a hypocritical Catch-22. Are men shallow and entitled as fuck for hoping to date a better woman? Sure. But when women refuse to date men below their level, that’s somehow completely kosher.